The Female Gaze: How Women View Your Penis Size

How Women View Your Penis Size

Many things can make you doubt your penis’ shape, size, coloring, or partner-pleasing ability. With over-accentuated sizes in pornography and with ladies openly discussing penis sizes in music and on TV, it’s no wonder many men are feeling paranoid or emasculated.

Feeling Like You Don’t Stack Up

Men can have “penis issues” beginning in their teens. They believe their members are too small despite people or medical research that tells them otherwise.

It’s easy to get the impression that other guys are packing anacondas, and you got the proverbial short end of the stick downstairs. You might have Penile Dysmorphia or Penile Body Dysmorphic Disorder (PBDD) if you constantly think your hook-up partners or old relationships are talking dirty about how small your penis is.

Many men with Penile Dysmorphia have an average or larger-than-average penis size. However, they become preoccupied with perceived defects or flaws in their penis’ appearance, causing significant daily distress.

Men with PBDD might avoid socializing or dating. They could develop unhealthy sex patterns (avoidance or reluctant, detached, and emotionally disconnected sex).

Men with Penile Dysmorphia create obsessive habits. They may repeatedly measure themselves, avoid relationships, or attempt unsafe enlargement techniques they hear about from people they assume they can trust.

So, do you have an average penis? What kind of penis do most potential partners like, anyway? And how can you add girth to your penis (safely)?

What Is Average?

Penises are as different as the people they hang from, coming in all shapes, styles, and sizes. The average penis is 5.5 inches long with a girth of approximately just under 5 inches in circumference when erect. An average flaccid length and girth range anywhere from three to five inches.

What Do Women Appreciate? The 5 C’s

Like men, women want good sex. Fortunately, many penis shapes and sizes can give that to them. Same-gender sex isn’t too different, either. Below, we’ll discuss how to please potential partners no matter how you’re packing.

1. Character

Your actions can make or break your sexual encounters. Potential partners mostly want guys who are fun to talk to and seem relatively trustworthy.

You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea, but you can master the art of cordial conversation and pleasantries. Once you do, you should be more comfortable meeting more people, increasing your odds of finding someone who doesn’t have strong opinions on what your penis looks like. After all, it’s not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean.

2. Condition of Your Health

Women are sizing you up. Before a woman’s eyes get to the bulge in your trousers, though, she’s sized up the rest of you. The singular best way to be more appealing (and make your junk look larger) is to take proper care of your health.

Eat a healthy diet of whole foods. Engage in cardio and muscle-building exercises most days of the week. Cut back (way back) on alcohol, sweets, fats, and smoking. Reducing belly fat makes your junk automatically appear larger.

3. Compatibility

Put bluntly, a person’s sexual orifices only go so deep and wide. Those measurements are different for each person. Any potential partner is hoping you two fit together sexually and all other kinds of ways. Fortunately, lots of penis shapes and sizes can rock a person’s world in the bedroom.

4. Confidence

Most women appreciate a certain amount of confidence in their sexual partners. Insecure vibes will turn her off, like trying too hard to please or pointing out your potential flaws.

No one wants a ton of questions about how you’re doing during lovemaking. Plus, pointing out what you don’t like about your penis will make them notice what could otherwise go unnoticed.

5. Cleanliness

Women don’t want a guy who smells bad (especially down there). Keep your junk clean. That goes for the rest of your body, too.

To go along with cleanliness and hygiene, practice safe sex and get tested for STIs to keep your penis in top-notch working order.

There is a safe way to grow bigger junk to increase your and your partners’ satisfaction. Below, we’ll discuss dermal fillers for penile girth enlargement in more detail.

How to Safely Get Bigger

If women are interested in any singular thing about your penis, it’s your girth. A wider penis is more stimulating for anybody. You can please a partner with other parts of your body, too, but a thick-girthed penis simultaneously pleasures both of you.

Here’s how it works: Hyaluronic acid (HA) dermal filler injections plump you up in about a 30-minute doctor’s visit. Most men opt for multiple treatments for an ½ inch to 1-inch total girth gain.

HA dermal penis fillers involve absolutely no surgery, incisions, or stitches. There are no ongoing creams, devices, or pills to use. While you must abstain from any sexual activity for 10 days, there’s no social downtime required–do the procedure on your lunch break or head out for dinner afterward.

The results look and feel natural. Partners will never know you had the treatment. Keep your girth for a lifetime with filler follow-up treatments every couple of years. Erase any girth gains you don’t like with an HA-dissolving agent.

HA dermal fillers can even contour penises, helping curved ones look straighter. Curved penises are common and just as pleasurable in the sack as straight ones (sometimes even more so). However, if you don’t like the way your curves, HA treatments can help straighten you out.

It’s Important How You Feel

You can have satisfying sex regardless of how you’re hung. Most women are far less fixated on your penis size than you are. They care most about your character, body condition, confidence, and hygiene.

However, how you feel about yourself affects the five C’s women care about–character, cleanliness, confidence, etc. If your manhood is causing you mental anguish and negatively affecting other aspects, there’s something you can do about it. Check out HA dermal filler options to safely increase your girth and improve the look of your penis.

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